Question: Where’s the justice when we’ve been abused by a narcissist or other toxic individual? ⚖️

Well, let’s give this some thought. Overall, toxic and narcissistic people won’t accept accountability or apologize for anything…ever. That’s just how they roll. And if you pushed them to admit to their abusive behaviour or to issue an apology, there’s a fairly high chance that they’d gaslight you and toss out even more emotional and other abuse. And unless they’ve broken the law, we (unfortunately) can’t have them arrested for simply being who they are.

Here’s the thing: we need to give ourselves justice. How do we do that? Through learning and empowering ourselves about toxic behaviours and how we were impacted, and by healing ourselves, growing through self-care and personal development, and then thriving in our lives. We let go of thinking about our abuser and the what’s and why’s of their actions. We find ourselves. We find peace. We find purpose and fulfillment. That’s our justice. We prioritize our healing and we move forward on our journey.

Learn, Heal, Grow, Thrive

And if we need a little extra notion of justice, consider what it’s like to be a toxic individual. At some point, they, too have been damaged and they’ve emerged from it angry, messed up, and lost. By choice, they aren’t working on themselves, and their miserable lives continue that way as a result. (Some) hurt people hurt people. Not making excuses for abuse or toxic people in any way. It’s just reality. They’re broken people.

We need to remember that we have the option of giving ourselves justice through learning, healing, growing, and thriving. Talk about a superpower!

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Until next time,

~Heather~ Natural Clarity Coaching

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